The art of Happiness

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Life isn’t the sweetest candy. Sometimes, when you feel like the world is just too heavy, look around and you will find people who continued to live fascinating and wonderful lives. How did their life become so adorably sweet? How come they still can manage to laugh and play around despite a busy stressful life? How do they cope up and bust depression and anxiety? The answer after a lot of research and interaction came up to be a simple but highly effective phenomenon, they work on a place called “self”.

But the intriguing question is that how does one become genuinely happy? Step 1 is to fall in love, head over heels, with your own self, yes you read it right, you love you and I love me.

Loving means accepting. To love one self means to accept that you are not a perfect being, but behind the imperfections must lie a great ounce of courage to be able to discover ways on how to improve your repertoire to recover from our mistakes.

Genuine happiness also pertains to contentment. When you are contented with the job you have, the way you look, with your family, your friends, the place you live in, your car, and all the things you now have – truly, you know the answer to the question “how to be genuinely happy.”

I believe that life is about finding out about right and wrong, trying and failing, wining and losing. These are things that happen as often as you inhale and exhale. Failure, in a person’s life has become as abundant and necessary as air. Remember failure is not a person but just an unfortunate event that came and went; nothing is eternal in this world, and as such this should not hinder us from becoming happy.

Genuine happiness isn’t about driving the hottest Formula 1 car, nor getting the employee of the year award, earning the highest incentive or monthly pay, or beating the sales quota. Sometimes, the most sought after prizes in life do not always go to the fastest, the strongest, and the bravest or not even the best. So, how do you become genuinely happy? Every one has his own definition of ‘happiness’. Happiness for a writer may mean launching as much best selling books as possible. Happiness for an athlete may mean getting the best athlete tag of the year award. Happiness for a beggar may mean a lot of money. Happiness for a business man may mean success. So, really now, how do we become genuinely happy? You don’t have to have the best things in this world. It’s about doing and making the best out of every single thing. When you find yourself smiling at your own mistake and telling your self “Oh, I’ll do better next time”, you carry with you a flame of strong will power to persevere that may spread out like a brush fire. You possess a willingness to stand up again and try – that will make you a genuinely happy person. In a nutshell happiness means leading your life the way you want

“Most of us know that laughter is the best medicine to life’s aches and pain. But most of us don’t know that the best kind of laughter is laughter over self. Coz then you don’t just become happy… you become free.”

This is just a brief synopsis by Alok Sharma. For the full scoop mail to alokalphawizard@gmail.com

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